Friday, February 14, 2014

Review: Anything to Have You by Paige Harbison

18168638Release date: January 28th 2014
Publisher: Harlequin Teen
Purchase: Amazon

Synopsis via Goodreads:
Nothing should come between best friends, not even boys. ESPECIALLY not boys.

Natalie and Brooke have had each other's backs forever. Natalie is the quiet one, college bound and happy to stay home and watch old movies. Brooke is the movie—the life of every party, the girl everyone wants to be.

Then it happens—one crazy night that Natalie can't remember and Brooke's boyfriend, Aiden, can't forget. Suddenly there's a question mark in Natalie and Brooke's friendship that tests everything they thought they knew about each other and has both girls discovering what true friendship really means.



*eBook Approved via netgalley



When I started reading Anything to Have You, I was convinced the story would turn out to be a good read. The characters seemed fun-loving, witty, and appealing. Even though it went downhill for me, with the party and Natalie waking up to realize that she'd gotten so wasted, that she blacked out and couldn't remember who she had sex with, because in fact, she knew she did. There are so many things wrong with that. The main thing being: hello? If you got drunk to the point where all logical thinking and clarity flew out the door, and you don't know who took advantage of you, because obviously someone took advantage of your drunken state, then that is in fact rape. I didn't like that such a serious issue was not brought up. If anything, it made the characters seem like that was a norm, like everything about that was cool. It is not. And I found that very disturbing. Still, it wasn't a bad read.

Let's detour from these teenagers a moment to examine their home life. Natalie's father bugs me. There's no way a parent should be that buddy-buddy with their kid and be so happy about them going to parties, where the opposite sex and plenty of alcohol would be. He was a teenager once so of course he should know the deal. And I felt his reaction to her being hungover a bit casual if not oblivious. The stern parent role should have come into play on many occasions, regardless of how smart and responsible he considered his daughter to be. If Natalie had gone out without his permission, I could have accepted that more than him just simply saying, "go ahead. go to this wild party. drink a lot, lose control, black out, then get taken advantage of." 

Aside from that awful event and the way in which it was handled, or rather not handled, Natalie didn't really win me over. She cracked easily under peer pressure, never truly spoke her mind, and basically appeared as a lapdog for her so-called best friend, Brooke. I would have loved for her to be stronger and not so wimpish. Brooke was more of that and then some.

Speaking of the latter, Brooke rubbed me the wrong way since the party as well. In fact, everyone turned out to be off since the party. Anyway, back to the wild flower. Brooke is your usual spoiled girl who loves attention. She's the kind of girl who doesn't care if every single guy in the world loves her, and she gets pissed if one of these guys likes somebody else. Talk about messed up. When you look into her life outside of this, she had issues with her family, which obviously stemmed her need for attention else where, whether it be in drinking or hooking up for the fun of it. She was portrayed in such a trashy way throughout the book that it overwhelmed me. Not only trashy by her grotesque habits, but also in her selfish tendencies towards her boyfriend, deeming their relationship outdated, and also towards the person that's supposed to be her best friend since how long. It took a long time for her to come back down to earth and tap into her real feelings. However, I felt really let down by her character for the most part. When I found out how it really was from the getgo, with Natalie and Aiden, Brooke turned me off even more. Then again, Aiden wasn't so perfect either. I wanted to slap him so bad for putting Natalie through that. Not only did he come off as a rapist from jump, because once again, that whole event didn't seem right to me, I thought he should have told Natalie the truth from the moment he realized she didn't know what really happened. Jerk. No matter how sweet the book tried to make him out to be, he was in my eyes an idiot.

So, what did I like about the story? The pacing, I flew through in no time, and the writing was good. It kept me interested enough to want to finish the book, in hopes that everything would work out. And you know what, even though it enraged me that their reaction to being wasted and passing out was so normal even if they had sex with someone and didn't remember who it was, I thought that reflected on actual issues in the real world. Truth is, teens do sneak off or go with their parents approval to parties, drink a lot, and do end up in situations like that where they simply brush it off. And while I hated how all the characters did was drink, party, drink, hookup, drink, it was somewhat realistic. Even though I was never like that as a teenager, there are kids who really do that. Watch the news. There are realistic elements within this story, no matter how off it mostly was for me.


12 comments:

  1. I hate unrealistic parental relationship! Good review - I think I am going skip this one!
    Missie @ A Flurry of Ponderings

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    1. Thank you, but don't let my review steer you away from the book. It is my opinion and you might like it more :)

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  2. I could understand parents not wanting to judge their children but the father did seem a bit too lenient. Thanks for sharing what you liked and disliked about the book.

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    1. Indeed. He took trusting to a whole other level.

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  3. I like these books with troubling situations, if there's a learning moment from it. So, that didn't happen in the story? Sadly I've known girls who've had black out sex and it's not that they were stupid, but a lot have grown up thinking that's not rape. It's a wasted opportunity if awareness doesn't come through in this book.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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    1. I think so too, but at the same time, maybe the author should have brought up a way for it being rape through the pages, even by not coming out and saying its rape. It is a problem in society, that's why I mentioned that it does in fact have realistic rudiments.

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  4. Hmm I got this one recently but now I'm not so sure about it. I feel like I would have a lot of the same issues with it that you did. May still give it a shot. Thanks for the honest review!

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    1. I think you should still read it. It could be me :)

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  5. Great review! I'm giving this one a shot simply because I have it for review but a friend said I'd have my ranty pants on and reading this review it sure sounds like I will! The whole drinking to excess and having sex while drunk and then the guy keeping you in the dark is so concerning and it's a shame that it's not considered rape in the book because it is! Ugh, Rape Culture 101! Getting annoyed already! Great review Shane!

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    1. I want to think the author was trying to show how teens brush off such things, but I can't say for certain.

      Thanks for stopping by :)

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  6. Oh dear, and the blurb made it sound so appealing. Your recount of the incident doesn't make the book sound good at all. Rape is not a light issue and if it's included in a book, it needs to be dealt with in the right way. Plus all the characters sound so stereotypical that I can probably already guess half of what's going to happen. Ugh, I think I might give this book a pass...

    Great review though!

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    1. Thank you. But like I said, maybe it's me so you might feel different about the story if you read it.

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